מחשבות על קשישים

בתקופה האחרונה למדתי פרק בהלכות חיים.

הכנתי אתר בעזרת מקצוען וביקשתי מחברים להיכנס לאתר לאחר שהעליתי אותו ברשת. התחילה מבוכה גדולה. האנשים ניסו ולא הצליחו. היו מעטים מאד, בעיקר צעירים, שהצליחו להירשם, אבל היה קשה. הכניסה בעזרת סיסמא, אחרי ההרשמה, הייתה קשה יותר. זה כנראה אופייני לגילנו המופלג. אנשים מבוגרים נרתעים מניסויים. מבחינה מסוימת אולי גם מפחדים "לקלקל", כי אנחנו גדלנו על משחקים מכניים שעודף ניסויים היה עלול לחסלם. הבנתי את החשיבות של "אתר ידידותי למשתמש", כאשר רואים שהמשקיעים מחפשים להשקיע באתרים ידידותיים.

החלטתי להפוך את האתר לפחות מאבטח ויותר נגיש. ביטלנו את הסיסמא והכניסה הפכה לקלה יותר. עדיין לדעתי מעטים הנכנסים לאתר ומצליחים להסתדר. רבים נרתעים ועוזבים כאשר מתגלים הקשיים. ילדים במצב כזה מנסים עוד ועוד עד שהדבר עולה בידם ולאט הם לומדים. זו הסיבה שלכל "גאדג'ט" חדש אנחנו מקבלים הדרכה מהנכדים. מבחינות רבות העולם המודרני אכזר לאלה שאינם מתמצאים בו. אני הולך לאיבוד פעמים רבות בטלפון ה"חכם" כשאינני יכול לבצע דבר אלמנטרי, ולפעמים, אפילו פעולה שכבר ביצעתי בעבר פעמים רבות. אני מניח שאנו מאבדים גם מיומנויות שרכשנו בעבר, הזיכרון מתעתע והתנועה זורמת פחות.

נכדתי שירה כתבה לי:

"……ובנוגע למייל שכתבת, בו ציינת שהכניסות לאתר דלילות.
רציתי להגיד ש"נפלת במלכודת" של דור הרשתות החברתיות! המלכודת היא – הסטטיסטיקות!
למעשה, כששולחים מייל לא יודעים מי קרא או לא קרא, אך בפלטפורמות החדשות (לדוגמא אינסטגרם, פייסבוק וטוויטר וכו') כל הזמן מקבלים פידבקים מדידים וזה בעצם הכוח המניע שגורם להמשיך ולשתף.
הפידבקים הם: "לייקים", עוקבים חדשים, מספר צפיות בסירטונים, תגובות וכו', את אלו צוברים לכדי מספרים שכמו מגדירים את ההצלחה החברתית שלך.
בכל מקרה, העיסוק בסטטיסטיקות ממכר! (אני למשל עסוקה בסטטיסטיקות סביב הפעילות הגופנית שאני עושה)"

עד כאן שירה.

מעניין ואופייני לצעירים של היום. לי אין כל תשוקה לפידבק חיובי. בסך הכל רציתי לשוחח. אין לי כל רצון שיהיו לי "חברים" רשומים, כאלה שעושים לייקים ומשתפים. אני מעדיף עשרים חברים על אלפיים "חברים". אבל בגלל קשיי שמיעה ניטלה ממני היכולת לשיחת טלפון כהלכתה. גם אפליקציית ווטסאפ נראית לי תחליף נחות לשיחת חברים. הכתיבה משמשת לי כתחליף הטוב ביותר.

אני מכיר רק תרופה אחת לקשיים וקוראים לה עקשנות. בכל יום כאשר אני מתיישב ליד המחשב וקורא, כותב, מחפש, או כול פעולה אחרת אני נתקל בקשיים ומחסומים על כל צעד ושעל. לפעמים צעד שנראה פשוט לכאורה מסתבך והולך ואני נאבק זמן רב, לפעמים שעות. פעמים רבות אני מצליח לפתור את הבעיה, לא תמיד.

סבלנות ! סבלנות! סבלנות!

אני מציע לחברי – לא להתייאש. להמשיך ולנסות, עם ובלי עזרה, בנחישות ובהתמדה. הכול ניתן לפיצוח.

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